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This article provides useful, detailed information about Wedding Cake Designs.
The phrase wedding cake conjures up an image of a three-layered white cake with plastic figurines of the bride and groom perched on top. But that is now passé. Wedding cakes are going through a fashion makeover and new styles and designs are in vogue. With the help of a talented cake designer, there is no limit to how unique wedding cakes can be.
These days, flowers intertwined with a delicate icing are very popular. If you have a favorite flower, it can be used as the main focus of the cake\’s design. You may want the flowers of your bridesmaids duplicated on the cake or the flowers in your bridal bouquet. Any talented cake designer should be able to create a beautiful cake with this design in mind. Just make sure you bring along samples of your flowers when you meet with the baker.
The color scheme of your wedding can also be incorporated into a wedding cake. You can even request that a designer try to emulate the design and style of your wedding gown into your cake. Depending on the season, your cake designer can whip up fabulous wedding cakes with snowflakes and icicles for winter, chrysanthemums, and autumn colored leaves for fall, daisies and raindrops for spring and tulips and roses for summer. Thinking in terms of fun and creativity will help achieve unique and wonderful results.
Whatever type of cake you desire, discuss your thoughts with several cake designers to ensure that what you want is what you get. If you\’re not sure
, let the designer give you ideas. Guaranteed they will have many wonderful suggestions.
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This article provides useful, detailed information about Birth Control.
Birth control or \”Contraception\” is a measure to prevent pregnancy. There are many methods used for birth control. Some methods work better than others.
When a couple plans to use birth control, the method that they choose depends on factors such as the mother\’s overall health, frequency of biological intercourse, how well the method works in preventing pregnancy, any possible side effects and the mother\’s comfort level in using the method.
The most effective birth control method is continuous abstinence that is, not having any type of intercourse. The next best is periodic abstinence or fertility awareness. A woman who has a regular menstrual cycle has about seven or more fertile days every month. In these days her chances of getting pregnant are greater than normal. Periodic abstinence means that the partners do not have sex on these days.
Another birth control method prevents the male sperm from fertilizing the female egg. These methods involve the use of condoms, diaphragms, or cervical caps.
Oral Contraceptives, also known as the pill, are taken daily and contain two hormones called estrogen and progestin. They block the release of eggs from the ovaries. Oral contraceptives may add to a woman\’s risk of heart disease, high blood pressure, blood clots and blockage of the arteries.
Another birth control method is the IUD (intrauterine device). An IUD is a small T shaped device that is placed inside the female uterus. The device stops fertilization by preventing sperm from entering the uterus. Even if fertilization occurs, the IUD prevents the fertilized egg from implanting in the lining of the uterus.
There are other methods such as IUS, Depo-Provera injections, contraceptive sponges, The Patch (Ortho Evra), Hormonal Vaginal Contraceptive Rings (NuvaRing)
, surgical sterilization (tubal-ligation or vasectomy) and non-surgical sterilization (Essure Permanent Birth Control).
None of the above methods except abstinence are 100% effective. Doctors and nurses are the best professionals to consult on an appropriate birth control measure.
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This article provides useful, detailed information about Birth Announcement.
When a baby is born, it\’s a matter of joy to the parents, grandparents and all their near and dear ones. A Birth announcement is one way of sharing the joy with the community.
Birth announcements come in many forms — printed text messages, photo messages, web pages or interactive blogs.
People who are conservative and traditional literally write their announcements by using pens or felt pens on glossy high quality paper. Some of them use hand drawn gorgeous and unique designs and a few photographs to go with the message. They fit this arrangement inside hand painted frames. Some prefer varnished wooden or gold plated metal frames. Others like colored ribbons to enhance the beauty of the announcement cards.
Some people develop their announcements using MS Word and computer graphics such as Word Art for message text. Lucida Console, Comic Sans and Monotype Corsiva are some of the popular fonts used. An increasing number of people prefer computer aided designs, multimedia web pages and blogs to tell the world that there infant has arrived.
It was not to long ago parents spent a lot of time preparing birth announcement cards. Today, birth announcement companies can help with all the preparations. Most of these companies have their own web site and parent and well wisher can go to the webpage, click the relevant link
, get all the necessary information need to make an announcement card and place an order. The company will do the rest from design to hosting.
Birthday announcements can make the baby\’s special day a most memorable and cherished event.
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This article provides useful, detailed information about Birth.
The birth of an infant is a wonderful process. The process takes place in stages as described below.
By nature, the male organ ejects sperms and the female organ produces eggs. Ovulation is the release of an egg from the ovaries. Normally, in women who haven\’t reached menopause, ovaries release an egg once a month. This is known as ovulation. This egg travels through the fallopian tube toward the uterus. When the male sperm reaches the egg in the fallopian tube, fertilization occurs. The fertilized egg continues its movement towards the uterus, implants itself in the uterine wall and begins to develop into an embryo. Embryo is the earliest manifestation of all humans. The woman becomes pregnant, and it takes nearly 9 months, that is, three trimesters of 12 weeks, for the infant to be born.
Pregnancy causes a number of changes in a woman\’s body in the first trimester (0 to 12 weeks). The very first change is the absence of menstruation. Other symptoms include fatigue, nausea and vomiting and enlarging breasts. However, a woman having these symptoms isn\’t necessarily pregnant. The surest way to confirm pregnancy is a pregnancy test.
In the second (weeks 13 to 24) and third trimesters (weeks 25 to delivery), a woman may experience additional symptoms including an expanding abdomen, leg cramps, heartburn and hemorrhoids. These symptoms and changes are due to pregnancy hormones and the fetal growth. Although pregnancy involves a number of symptoms and changes in a woman, there is no way to predict which symptoms a woman will experience. Each pregnancy is different, even in the same woman.
By the end of the first trimester, the fetus is about three inches long and weighs about half an ounce. By the end of the third trimester
, the fetus is about 20 inches long and weighs about seven pounds.
The best person to discuss the changes and symptoms associated with pregnancy is an obstetrician. The best source for further information on pregnancy is Planned Parenthood Federation of America. Its web address is www.plannedparenthood.org.
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My husband and I had just begun to enjoy the freedom of an “empty nest” when my son moved back home with his Maltese. We greeted the little newcomer with a bit of skepticism–but in a very short time “P.J” took over not only our home, but our hearts.
When our son announced that he was moving back home to further his education, and that he was bringing P.J., his Maltese with him, my husband and I were somewhat apprehensive to say the least. First of all, we had never even seen a Maltese, and weren’t entirely sure that we even wanted to. Secondly, we thoroughly enjoyed our life as it was with the flexibility of coming and going whenever we wanted to. We also enjoyed the fact that we could have quiet time or go out for entertainment if and when we desired.
We knew things would change somewhat just by having our son home again, but between his working full time and going to school, we weren’t expecting to see much of him. So, what about the dog? If we didn’t see much of our son, neither would the dog see much of our son, which meant that my husband and I were soon to become a “threesome”. We decided we would tolerate the situation, knowing it was only temporary, but we were both already longing for assurance that we would have our previous flexible life back real soon.
Moving day soon arrived, and as the furniture and boxes were being moved in to the house, this inquisitive little fuzzy white dog with huge black eyes suddenly appeared, bounding in the door. She didn’t even acknowlege the fact that my husband and I were sitting on the couch, and instead began scurrying from room to room as if taking inventory of everything in site. She displayed absolutely no fear and one would never have suspected that this was her first trip to a house belonging to virtual strangers. When she completed her investigation, it was as if she gave everything her stamp of approval, jumped up into my lap, curled up, and promptly went to sleep. Little did I know that this was just the beginning of many curling up in the lap sessions.
That day, which was a little over three years ago, has certainly changed our lives, to say the least. Our car now has a doggie car seat prominately displayed in the backseat, and the car seldom leaves the driveway without P.J. happily perched inside. Our once orderly living room now has a large basket sitting there to hold the numerous dog toys and rawhide chews which are instead always scattered all over the house. There’s no such thing as an empty lap. P.J. not only thinks that all laps are “created equal”, but also that all laps are created for her. Both my husband and myself often find ourselves having complete conversations with….the dog. She’ll attentively sit there with her ears perked up listening to every word. She also loves to perch up on the back of the sofa and proudly announce the arrival of every bird, squirrel, dog, or person that does or does not come up to the door.
Yes, our lives have certainly changed. We no longer have the flexibility of coming and going whenever we want to. Our quiet haven is no more. In exchange we now have an adorable whimsical little companion who excitedly barks and wags her tail anytime either of us walks through the door. Our entertainment now consists of taking P.J. to the park or playing fetch, and our quiet time is holding this little ball of fur while she naps.
Our son has completed his schooling and is now moving on to a new phase of his life, but leaving P.J. with us. We of course are thrilled with this arrangement
, and actually couldn’t imagine life without P.J. anymore. She has truly stolen our hearts with her Maltese Magic.
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Information on arthritis in dogs and what the treatment options are.
Canine Arthritis is a common ailment as dog’s age. It is similar to humans as calcification and inflammation cause joint pain and reduced activity. Some forms of arthritis like Canine Hip Dysplasia can develop early in life due to genetics and diet. Fortunately, arthritis in dogs can be treated.
Treatments for canine arthritis range from natural supplements using chondroitin and glucosamine, to veterinary prescribed drugs such as Rimadyl and Deramaxx. Studies and actual results have shown that natural supplements can be extremely effective in fighting the effects of arthritis in dogs without the potentially dangerous side effects of Rimadyl and Deramaxx. Before deciding which treatment option is best for your dog, you should observe the signs of dog arthritis.
Signs of Dog Arthritis
1. Limping and general reduced activity.
2. Favoring one or both of the front or back limbs.
3. Morning activity or cold weather makes the dog less active.
4. Difficulty rising from a resting position, especially in the morning.
5. Pain to the touch.
6. Reluctance to jump.
If you suspect your dog has arthritis, you should know the different forms or types of arthritis. The most common disorders are listed below.
Types of Dog Arthritis
1. Osteoarthritis Also known as canine arthritis or dog arthritis, it is the most common form of arthritis and most easily treated. Develops slowly as the dog ages.
2. Rheumatoid Arthritis - This is an immune mediated disease and can affect the whole body. Several joints can be affected and the lameness can come and go without notice. Considered a more serious condition than dog osteoarthritis.
3. Degenerative Disc Disease - This is where the discs in the vertebrae develop calcification and become rigid. They become less able to withstand compression. This can lead to a severe injury and paralysis if the discs rupture or become herniated.
4. Stifle Joint Disorder - This is a condition in which the knee and joint becomes unstable. This is usually from a stretched or torn ligament. This can also cause the joint cartilage to become damaged and inflamed.
5. Canine Hip Dysplasia - This is caused by looseness in the socket connecting the thighbone and hipbone. This development usually occurs when the dog is young but can develop at any age. A common sign is to hear a clicking sound when the dog walks.
Treatment Options
1. Natural Supplements Most natural supplements use chondroitin and/or glucosamine as its primary ingredient. All of the glucosamine forms originate and are extracted from shellfish. Chrondroitin is derived from animal cartilage. Many products like Free and Easy for Dogs use glucosamine and chondroitin and combine additional supplements to provide a synergistic effect. Besides glucosamine and chondroitin, some of the more popular and effective supplements added are msm, ester-c, and hyaluronic acid. Many studies have been done which have proved the effectiveness of these supplements in humans. Dog owners have also reported many positive outcomes for their dogs using these natural supplements.
2. Rimadyl & Deramaxx - These drugs are obtained by prescription only. They are called NSAID (non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drug). Rimadyl was introduced by Pfizer Pharmaceuticals in January 1997 to help treat dogs with inflammation and pain associated with surgery or canine arthritis. It is effective but it must be used with caution. Search Google for “What Your Vet May Not Tell You About Rimadyl” for more detailed information. At a minimum, you need to have blood work done to monitor the liver enzymes to ensure your dog doesn’t have a toxic reaction to the drugs.
3. Surgery - Surgery can be an easy decision or a very difficult decision. Often, money is a concern and some surgeries like disc surgery can cost around $3,500. Often, the age of the dog has to be considered when making this decision. And the outlook and prognosis is very important. You do not want the dog to suffer unnecessarily. At the very least, you should only consider surgery after ensuring an accurate diagnosis has been made. This may involve taking x-rays and a myelogram. A myelogram is done by injecting dye in the spinal canal to enable your doctor to detect abnormalities of the spine, spinal cord
, or surrounding structures.
Summary - Dog Arthritis can be a very debilitating disease if left untreated. Dog owners should pay close attention to their animals and take prompt action when symptoms are noticed. Often a natural supplement is all that is needed to help your dog. Sometimes more aggressive treatments are needed such as surgery. The most important thing is to notice and diagnose the problem and then decide what treatment is best for your dog.
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Family values - something we don’t often talk about. Your family values provide the foundation your family needs, so take the time to teach them to your children.
Have you ever really sat down and given thought to what values you want to teach in your family? If someone asked you, could you tell them the five most important values to you? How clear are your children about what the family values are? Your values speak to what is most important to you in life. They are the foundation of your family. Without a clear vision of what your values are, life is more challenging. Let me explain why.
Your family values guide your decisions. Every decision you make is based on values. If you choose not to get up for a morning jog, then you are valuing sleep over exercise in that moment. If you allow your child to stay home from school because she complains of a stomach ache, then you are valuing your child’s health over her education that morning. Many of the day-to-day decisions are made without even thinking about them, but they should all represent what’s important to you.
Sometimes, however, you’ll notice some decisions are much harder to make. It’s usually because you’re struggling with a value conflict. I think one of the hardest decisions I ever had to make was whether or not I should put my older son on medication for ADHD. The value conflict I wrestled with was his physical health vs. his emotional/educational health. Until I was very clear which was most important to me, I battled with guilt and apprehension. Today I am totally comfortable with my son taking medication because I ultimately decided that his emotional and educational success was more important than the risks I may be taking with his physical health. His dad, however, has different values than me. He values his physical health over his emotional and educational success.
Stress is the result of not living in integrity with your values. In the coaching world, we regularly talk about how well we are walking our talk. If I say honesty is important to me, then I better live an honest life. If I’m not, then I’m not walking my talk. And the result is self-induced stress. How much stress in your family can be contributed to living out of integrity with your family values?
For instance, let’s say you highly value peace. If your family has frequent conflicts, then you will feel stressed much of the time. If being on time is important to you, stress will occur anytime the family is running late. Honoring your most important values is paramount if you are going to live the life you want.
To have a phenomenal family, everyone needs to be on the same page with the family values. So sit down and make a list of what values you want to live by. Try to pick your top five. If you’re married, have your partner make his own separate list. Combine your lists and together choose 5-7 values that you absolutely won’t compromise in your family. Schedule a family meeting and clearly communicate your family values. For example, if respect is a value you want your family to live by, then explain to your children what respect means. Give them concrete examples of what respect looks like. Being respectful means we talk to each other with kindness. It means we must ask each other if we want to borrow personal belongings. Respect means we listen to the person who is speaking.
Once everyone is clear what the family values, then start walking your talk. That means your rules will center on your values. Your decisions will be guided by your values. Each member of the family will be held accountable to living out these values. You reward and praise each other when those values are being displayed. There are consequences when the family values are compromised. And most important, mom and dad must be walking models of these values in the home.
Being clear about and honoring your values will make life easier for you. Most decisions will be effortless. You will experience less stress in your life. You will begin to live your life with more purpose and fulfillment. And ultimately
, you will pass on to your children the family values you one day hope will be passed on to future generations.
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Lori Radun, CEC certified life coach for moms. To receive her FREE newsletter and the FREE special report 155 Things Moms Can Do To Raise Great Children, go to http://www.true2youlifecoaching.com
How one ADHD child went from A’s to F’s–in just a couple weeks–using hockey cards. This technique can work for any ADHD child, no matter what their interests are, is fun and easy to do, and works like a charm on grades…
I love to tell this story about an ADHD child who went from F’s to A’s in science using hockey cards.
There was this kid with ADHD symptoms that I worked with clinically who was a brilliant kid (as anyone with an ADHD child can relate to). He was getting really bad grades in science class. I mean, he was getting F after F, whereas he was able to get A’s in other classes. This is a phenomenon we find often with the ADHD child.
He said it was because he really didn’t like the teacher…the teacher was really boring. That’s what the ADHD child will often say. However, I wouldn’t doubt it, because he had done well in that subject in previous years.
I said, “Do you or don’t you want to get better grades so you don’t have to have your parents bothering you all the time?” He said, “Yes.”
I said, “If you could do it and not really have to think about it, how about that?”
“Sure.”
I said, “Here’s what you do. What are you interested in? What do you think about all the time? What are you able to focus on?” He said, “Nothing.”
His parents came in, and I said, “Mom and Dad, what is this kid able to focus on like nothing else?” They said, “He can’t focus on a thing. He has an auditory-processing disorder, ADHD symptoms, and everything else. His brain doesn’t have the ability to focus. He can’t focus on anything for more than 30 seconds.” A common response from parents of an ADHD child.
I finally said, “What is the one thing that you always yell at him about doing, about getting distracted by, when he should be doing something else?”
They said, “Hockey, the sport. He loves hockey.” I said, “Wait a second. This kid loves hockey?” I asked him, “What do you think about when you’re in science class?” He said, “Hockey.”
“You’re thinking about hockey when you’re in science class. Do you ever have dreams about hockey?”
“Almost every night.”
“Interesting. What do you watch on TV?”
“Hockey.”
“Is there anything you like to collect?”
“Hockey cards.”
“What sports do you play?”
“Hockey.”
Are you starting to notice a pattern?
I said, Aha! This kid’s so focused on hockey that his brain is completely occupied by it. He’s not able to think about anything else and stay interested, because he’s so excited about hockey. That’s not an inability to focus. That’s an over-ability to focus…again, a common but overlooked ability that the ADHD child has, in fact anyone with ADHD symptoms usually has.
How can we take that interest, love, passion, excitement or fun that is associated with hockey, and plug it into boring science homework?
There are a few things that we can do.
Number one is that we can make science class more fun.
I said “You live in a small town. Can we have a talk with the teacher?” His parents said, “The teacher might be boring, but is very understanding, and would love it if he had some techniques to deal with his ADHD symptoms.”
I said, “Look. Number one, tell the teacher that this boy is allowed to always have hockey trading cards with him in class and to be playing with them.”
Then I turned to the ADHD child and said, “The next thing you want to do, for your bookmarks for all your textbooks at school, is start using duplicate hockey trading cards. The extras that are just sitting around, start using those as your bookmarks in school.
“The other thing I would like you to do is go ahead and get a hockey poster, and use those hockey posters of your favorite sports figures as your book covers, instead of paper bags. Use those as your book covers. While you’re in class or while you’re studying these books at home, stand up your hockey cards all around so if you’re going to be thinking about hockey anyway, have it be a direct connect to the work you’re doing.”
Then I said, “When you’re doing homework, crank up your favorite music, and wear your hockey jersey. Actually get fully dressed if it’s not too warm. Get fully dressed in your hockey uniform that you play games in while you’re doing homework.”
Guess what happened? A couple of weeks later, this ADHD child was getting an A in the class because we associated every aspect of science with hockey.
He was smart enough, because he’s an ADHD child and all people with ADHD symptoms are much smarter than average. He just needed to be shown a way to solve the problem. He immediately understood.
In fact, this ADHD child was even smarter, because he figured out how to apply the same principle to his other classes, and he’s still doing great to this day.
The first premise for being successful with the ADHD child or anyone with ADHD Symptoms is you’ve got to let them do things that work for them. Very often, the things that work for them are things that the ADHD child has been taught or told not to do.
Who tells you to go take hockey cards and put them in your books, make them into book covers, and get dressed in hockey clothes so you can do better in school?
No, they just say, “Work harder.” That’s just not okay. It does nothing to help the ADHD child improve.
The second premise is to go with what the ADHD child’s brain is already focused on anyway, and just simply integrate that into their life.
If you have an ADHD child, or even have ADHD symptoms yourself, think about how you could make this work for you. And if you’d like to find out more about how to help an ADHD child or someone with ADHD symptoms use their ADHD symptoms to accomplish anything they want in life
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